tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post3447237700946058614..comments2023-08-18T10:11:45.483-04:00Comments on Mike In Midwood: ANOTHER GOOD REASONMikeinmidwoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18076346601047947913noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-44853128988187230372008-09-17T01:27:00.000-04:002008-09-17T01:27:00.000-04:00Or your sister may have been copping out for other...Or your sister may have been copping out for other reasons, she just blamed in on "personality"<BR/><BR/>When you read someone a shidduch you are essentially labeling, what type of background you think they have, what you think they're looking for, where they stand socially, what you think of them in a lot of different ways. This is all based on what type of person you want to set them up with.<BR/><BR/>People would rather not others know what they think of them...and therefore reading a shidduch is sticky stuff, and a lot of people just avoid it sadly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-467425639179867372008-09-16T22:34:00.000-04:002008-09-16T22:34:00.000-04:00J Da J Has got it right and in this case (what the...J Da J <BR/><BR/>Has got it right and in this case (what the post is based on) there was a common background. If there isnt a common background then yes dont try since it will wear you out.Mikeinmidwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18076346601047947913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-29652380652951156202008-09-16T21:42:00.000-04:002008-09-16T21:42:00.000-04:00Gotta agree with JDJ on this. Gotta have at least ...Gotta agree with JDJ on this. Gotta have at least SOME common ground, be ale to get along and not fight like...well I was going to say cats and dogs, but in my experience, that actually doesn't happen very often contrary to popular opinion. Fight like two things that don't get along.MAKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07096583450359907833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-45609873479226743552008-09-16T21:13:00.000-04:002008-09-16T21:13:00.000-04:00mike- I partially agree with you, people should de...mike- I partially agree with you, people should definitly be givin more chances, but JDJ is ultimately right.<BR/><BR/>JDJ-"Giving everything a shot based on "Why not?" is very wrong."<BR/><BR/>OMG you are sooooooooo right. I'm all for giving it a try, but people really need to think things through. I cannot tell you how many dates I've been on that I just wanted to shoot somone. I literally think the person was like "OMG, I KNOW A BOY" and called me up. <BR/><BR/>My friend and I were just discussing this, and JDJ is right, you just end up worn out and unwilling to date anymorefrumskeptichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02990363895869876238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-84064786655974454702008-09-16T19:22:00.000-04:002008-09-16T19:22:00.000-04:00Giving everything a shot based on "Why not?" is ve...Giving everything a shot based on "Why not?" is very wrong.<BR/><BR/>That attitude tends to wear people out, can you imagine going out with a girl "just because she's a girl"? <BR/><BR/>There should be some sort of comoon gorund etc before setting things up. I'm NOT talking about FBI backround checks either. Just that the two have some sort of compatiblity.Jacob Da Jewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15181930948956094882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-25335965848258887382008-09-16T07:47:00.000-04:002008-09-16T07:47:00.000-04:00MikeInMidwood: Perhaps, but woman are known for th...MikeInMidwood: Perhaps, but woman are known for theirs.Jewish Side of Babysitterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15792110478994916775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-27483503782212450372008-09-16T07:11:00.000-04:002008-09-16T07:11:00.000-04:00Child IshThanksBabysitterMen also have intuition.Child Ish<BR/><BR/>Thanks<BR/><BR/>Babysitter<BR/><BR/>Men also have intuition.Mikeinmidwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18076346601047947913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-28540696090137490882008-09-16T01:01:00.000-04:002008-09-16T01:01:00.000-04:00MikeInMIdwood: I won't disagree with what you said...MikeInMIdwood: I won't disagree with what you said. <BR/><BR/>But at the same time, woman do have something called intuition, they can tell when something won't work. I was actually talking to the sister of my best friends future husband, in other words her future sister in law. She said that she screened all his dates, and she picked my best friend. That was really cool. But I had no clue sisters were so involved in their brothers lives. Kinda seemed weird. But if it works then it works.Jewish Side of Babysitterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15792110478994916775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673987350740610491.post-52022960508143367562008-09-15T23:56:00.000-04:002008-09-15T23:56:00.000-04:00You tell'm Mike!You tell'm Mike!Originally From Brooklynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05927411127491577903noreply@blogger.com